The Night Shift Club · for new mums & dads
You're not the only one awake.
Calm, practical tips matched to your baby's age, every week. And a circle of new mums and dads who are going through exactly the same thing, right now. Because 3am is easier when you're not on your own.
Two ways to join
Start free. Upgrade when you want company.
Free
For calm, useful tips every week.
- The weekly email, matched to your baby's age
- The Community chat: topic circles for dads & partners, first tastes, feeding, sleep and more
- Chapters of the 188-page guide, at the right moment
- 10% off your next order as a welcome
Club+
For company at 3am, and help from people who get it.
- Everything in Free
- Your private birth-month circle of new mums and dads
- Direct messages with other parents in the Community
- A monthly live Q&A with a registered health visitor: sleep, feeding and development (watch live or catch up)
- Members' price: 10% off every order, always
- A Bunny Muslin Comforter and a card for your baby's first birthday
- First in line for the Tester Panel
Find your people
A circle of parents whose babies were born the same month.
Same stage, same worries, same 4am feeds. Club+ members join a small, private circle for their baby's birth month, plus any topic circles they like. Ask the question you'd feel silly googling. Someone else is awake.
- Small and private: your circle is only for parents with babies born the same month
- First names only, no public profiles
- A Calmo host in every circle, pointing to the guide, the NHS and real help when it matters
- Mute it any time. It's there when you want it, quiet when you don't
Private · first names only
Example conversation, to show how circles work.
Circles
Join the ones that fit your life.
Everyone in the Club can join the topic circles. Club+ members also get their private birth-month circle. All of it lives on our Community page.
Your birth-month circle
Parents whose babies arrive the same month as yours. You'll grow up together.
The Night Shift: dads & partners
For the other half of the night shift. Practical, honest and judgement-free.
First tastes
Weaning questions, gagging worries, recipes that actually got eaten.
Feeding, any way
Breast, bottle or both. No sides taken, ever.
Sleep (or the lack of it)
Regressions, early starts, naps. Swap what's working.
Local meet-ups
Find parents nearby for a walk and a coffee. Post your area, and meet in a public place.
The second week: why everyone's so tired
Cluster feeding is normal, and it's not a sign your milk isn't enough. Here's how to get through the evenings, and when to ask your midwife.
Read the full note
Six weeks: the peak of the crying
Many babies cry most around now. It usually eases by 3–4 months. Five ways to settle, and a reminder that it's OK to put them down safely and step away.
Read the full noteFour months: the sleep shake-up
Sleep cycles are maturing, so night wakings can return. What helps, what doesn't, and why it's a good sign, honestly.
Read the full note
Six months: first tastes
The three signs your baby is ready for solids, the difference between gagging and choking, and a gentle first-week plan.
Read the full note
One year: happy birthday
From milk to meals, from rolling to walking. And a note for you: look how far you've come.
Read the full noteThe weekly email · free for everyone
One calm email a week, for the week you're in.
What's normal right now, what's coming next, and one thing that helps. Short enough to read during a feed. Tap a stage to see an example.
Your first month in Club+
What happens after you join.
Welcome to the Club
Your welcome email, your 10% members' code, and an invite to your birth-month circle.
The weekly note
What's normal this week, what's next, and one thing that helps.
Live Q&A
Bring your questions on sleep, feeding or development. Watch live or catch up later.
Your free month ends
Stay for £4.95 a month, or switch to free. We'll remind you 3 days before.
Kind by design
A safe place to ask anything.
The internet can be a scary place for new parents. Our circles are small, private and looked after by real people.
No judging how anyone feeds, sleeps or parents. Ever.
Real people host every circle and remove anything unkind or unsafe.
First names only. Nothing you share is public or sold.
Circles aren't medical advice. Worried? Call your health visitor, NHS 111 or 999.
What does Club+ cost?
Your first 30 days are free, then it's £4.95 a month. Cancel any time in two taps, and you won't be charged again. We email you 3 days before your free month ends.
Is the free plan really free?
Yes. The weekly email, guide chapters and a welcome discount, free for as long as you like.
Where do the circles happen?
On the Community page of the Calmo website, on your phone or computer. No app to download: choose a username and a profile photo, and you can chat, share photos and send files.
Are dads and partners welcome?
Very. Every circle is for mums, dads and partners, and there's a circle just for dads and partners too.
Is it medical advice?
No. Circles are parents helping parents, with a Calmo host. For anything about your baby's health, talk to your midwife, health visitor or GP, or call NHS 111 or 999.
What happens to my details?
We use them to match emails and circles to your baby's age. We never sell them. See our privacy notice.
The Night Shift Club
Come and join the night shift.
Your first month of Club+ is free. Or start with the free weekly email and upgrade whenever you like.
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